Can a boy and a girl be friends forever ????

At times friendship between a boy and a girl becomes so complex that it's too good to be true. Sometimes those friendships cross the line and become something else. What do you do when you start falling for a friend? There is a fine line that most of us probably have gone through at one time or another.

What happens to our friendships? Why do some grow richer with time, others disappear, and others come to a crashing, often unexpected, end? Why do we fear to express the starting of love? Is it because of the fear of loosing the friendship? The friendship that develops from heart become everlasting and is never broken by any outside force.

What make them closer? The first answer is the growth of technology. Mobile phones play a great role in changing the relationships. Teenagers and youth are now more addicted to night callings. Girls are more dynamic than ever before. They talk to boys as the same level of girls. They chill out like boys. As time pass by there is no wonder that a boy and a girl getting into a relationship. But this is not the case with every people. As the coins have two sides there are friendships which never get diverted whether it is night callings or spending a day out or talking for hours.

I think now a days more than ending in marriage she/he and friend both agree for a mutual agreement with their relationships. This is going to stay till the marriage. That’s what they take the decision. In the worst cases there are people who carry over this relation after marriage also. That is what which we term as extra martial affair, which is growing at a fast rate in the world.

Why to keep such relationships that is no longer worth saving?

Almost every woman has experienced a fractured friendship. She actively decides to step back from a friendship that is getting changed. But is there a need of cutting the friendship completely?

I was always curious about the complexities of friendship. Why some stick on our life on what ever we do and why some go away just for a kidding reasons? Can’t a boy and a girl be friends forever? I really feel it can be until and unless there is a frequency of love in their heart. What happens if one proposes the other? Will that make a spark on the other heart too?  What happens if not? Can they remain the same as before?  Will they get that intimacy?  Lots of questions arise on my mind.

Friendship has changed to a word that is undefined and unpredictable. Anything can happen on it.

Always and forever

We started over SOUP...
we started out as friends
It's funny how from simple things,
the best things begin….
You're my sunshine after the rain
You're the cure against my fear and my pain
'Cause I'm losing my mind
When you're not around
It's all... It's all...
It's all because of you

How can I just let you walk away,
Just let you leave without a trace
When I stand here taking
Every breath with you, ooh….
Cos we've shared the laughter and the pain,
And even shared the tears
You're the only one
Who really knew me at all
Always and forever!!!!!

I want to tell you how much I love you
Each moment with you is just like a dream to me
That somehow came true
And I know tomorrow will still be the same
Cos' we've got a life of love that won't ever change
I finally found someone,
that knocks me off my feet
I finally found the one,
that makes me feel complete...!!!!

India – After 62 yrs of republic

India is celebrating its 62^nd Republic Day on January 26 2011.On this special occasion I proudly feel to say the growth of India and her success in various segments. Whether in defence, space missions, life expectancy, literacy, technology, telecommunications, films or sports we have shown our power and achievement. We often discuss the negative aspects of our country, but I would like to write about the goals India has achieved after British left us on 15 August 1947.The graph of India is rising is all fields and must say that we are just a few steps back from a developing country to a developed country.

First of all, I salute our great jawans who fought for our country in Indo-China war, Indo-Pak wars, especially Kargil war and saved us from the jaws of the enemy many times. We should respect their courage to provide us safety, security and tension free sleep. The most memorable person in my mind is Major Sandeep Unnikrishnan who was killed in action while fighting terrorists in the attacks. There might be many brave soldiers other than him, but I have seen his face a lot in orkut, face book and many other social websites. Might be because of that whenever I think about soldiers he comes in my mind. His bravery was honoured with the Ashoka Chakra, India's highest peace time gallantry award, on 26 January 2009. “Do not come up, I will handle them”, were the last words which Major Unnikrishnan told his men as he was hit by bullets while engaging well armed terrorists inside the Taj Mahal Palace.

Coming to our scientists, they have done brilliant work in the space and technology which led India to achieve the potential to send satellites and rockets into space. Successful launching of India’s first Lunar Mission Chandrayaan-I and detection of traces of water, ice and hydroxyl molecules on the lunar surface based on the scientific data is a victory in Indian History. India started its career in space in 1960’s with the launching of first Indian rocket. India launched its first experimental satellite, Aryabhatta, in 1975 .This was followed by a series of experimental satellites like Bhaskara , Rohini, stretched Rohini satellite series, SROSS. The first Indian experimental satellite, APPLE, was launched. Indian space programme reached the new stage with the launch of the series of INSAT (Indian National Satellite) in1983. The success of Chandrayaan-1 revealed to the world, India’s capability in one of the highly sophisticated areas of science and technology.

The Development Committee of the World Bank, in its meeting held on 25th April, 2010 at Washington DC, took historic decisions relating to increasing the financial capacity of the Bank and enhancing the role of developing countries in its governance. The changes in the shareholding structure of the Bank would make India one of the important shareholders in the Bank.  India would now be the 7th largest shareholder in the Bank. These changes reflect the rapid growth of the Indian economy in the past decade and its rising economic weight in global affairs. Our hard currency reserves have also grown from a mere $1.5 billion in 1991 to over $220 billion today.

The Indian IT industry is unique for several reasons. More than 2.3 million people are employed in the sector either directly or indirectly, making it one of the biggest job creators in India and a mainstay of the national economy. India has been the most beneficial outsourcing foundation for a firm to offshore their IT operations. The availability of expert workers at affordable rate made India an ideal destination. IT sector is now expected to attain profits amounting to US$ 225 billion along with new prospects.

India is the world's largest producer of films, producing close to a thousand films annually. Indian Cinema has found markets over 90 countries where our films are screened. Our great artist like Amitab, Aiswarya , Lata Mangeshkar , Shahrukh khan are respected by everyone world over. It was the greatest moment, when A R Rahman and Resul Pookutty received oscars. India has truly arrived at the Oscars now. Satyajit Ray has won the lifetime achievement award and Bhanu Athaiya for costume design in Gandhi. Rajnikanth starrer Tamil movie 'Endhiran', distributed by subsidiary Ayngaran International, has recorded gross overseas box office collection Rs. 610 million.

Finally coming into sports, we have shown our spirit in each game we play. India has won eight Olympic gold medals in hockey. India has been a major power in Cricket and has won both the One Day and T-20 World Cup. Sachin Tendulkar is now the master of records in world cricket. Viswanath Anand is the world champion in chess. Abhinav Bindra won gold in Olympics. Leander Pace, Mahesh Bupathi and Saniya Mirza are showing their talents in tennis.

In this past 62 years, India has gone far ahead than other countries and is still gaining success in various fields. Yes, we are growing… to make every citizen in India to say loudly “I am an Indian”.

Ye Duniya Ek Dulhan….
Ye Duniya Ek Dulhan…
Dulhan Ke Maathe Ki Bindiya…
Ye Mera India…
I Love My India…
Ye Mera India…
I Love My India………………
Vatan Mera India…
Sajan Mera India………..

Women in Modern World

Women have gained empowerment and are moving at par with men in male dominant society. The evidence is everywhere; the voice of women is increasingly heard in Parliament, courts and in the streets. In the current world women have chosen to be free from old traditions, beliefs and sentiments which have inhibited their self-expression and have been a barrier to their possibilities and their will. The rise of feminist ideas has, however, led to the tremendous improvement of women's condition through out the world. Truly, the trend is a healthy one.

Access to education has been one of the most pressing demands of theses women's rights movements. Women Education not only helps in the development of half of the human resources, but in improving the quality of life at home and outside. Educated women not only tend to promote education of their girl children, but also can provide better guidance to all their children. Moreover educated women can also help in the reduction of secretive abortion on the basis of prenatal genetic diagnosis and growth of the population

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In recent years there have been explicit moves to increase women's political participation. Women have been given representation in the Panchayati Raj system as a sign of political empowerment. There are many elected women representatives at the village council level. At the central and state levels too women are progressively making a difference. Today we have women Chief Ministers in five large states of India.

Women are becoming ever more noticeable in the domestic and international front in media, entertainment, business, IT, politics and literature. Whether it is a women specific media house - Kali for Women or the Electrolux FE Awards for businesswomen, there is growing acknowledgment of female go-getters and the surfacing of powerful Indian women.

Whether it is Barkha Dutt, who has become an inspiration for prospective journalists, Arundhati Roy, a Booker Prize Winner and a social worker, or Kiran Mazumdar Shaw, who became the wealthiest Indian woman after the first public submission of her company, Biocon , they have all heralded the influx of Indian women professionals.

Today women with their smartness, grace and elegance have conquered the whole world. They with their hard work and sincerity have excelled in each and every profession. Women are considered to be more honest, meticulous, and efficient and hence more and more companies prefer hiring women for better performance and result.

The argument is no longer that men are stronger and brighter but that women too have equally great capacities for great achievements.