Saturday, September 17, 2011

Can a boy and a girl be friends forever ????



At times friendship between a boy and a girl becomes so complex that it's too good to be true. Sometimes those friendships cross the line and become something else. What do you do when you start falling for a friend? There is a fine line that most of us probably have gone through at one time or another.

What happens to our friendships? Why do some grow richer with time, others disappear, and others come to a crashing, often unexpected, end? Why do we fear to express the starting of love? Is it because of the fear of loosing the friendship? The friendship that develops from heart become everlasting and is never broken by any outside force.


What make them closer? The first answer is the growth of technology. Mobile phones play a great role in changing the relationships. Teenagers and youth are now more addicted to night callings. Girls are more dynamic than ever before. They talk to boys as the same level of girls. They chill out like boys. As time pass by there is no wonder that a boy and a girl getting into a relationship. But this is not the case with every people. As the coins have two sides there are friendships which never get diverted whether it is night callings or spending a day out or talking for hours.


I think now a days more than ending in marriage she/he and friend both agree for a mutual agreement with their relationships. This is going to stay till the marriage. That’s what they take the decision. In the worst cases there are people who carry over this relation after marriage also. That is what which we term as extra martial affair, which is growing at a fast rate in the world.

Why to keep such relationships that is no longer worth saving?

Almost every woman has experienced a fractured friendship. She actively decides to step back from a friendship that is getting changed. But is there a need of cutting the friendship completely?

I was always curious about the complexities of friendship. Why some stick on our life on what ever we do and why some go away just for a kidding reasons? Can’t a boy and a girl be friends forever? I really feel it can be until and unless there is a frequency of love in their heart. What happens if one proposes the other? Will that make a spark on the other heart too?  What happens if not? Can they remain the same as before?  Will they get that intimacy?  Lots of questions arise on my mind.

Friendship has changed to a word that is undefined and unpredictable. Anything can happen on it.

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